redhairedsouthernbelleinlove asked: Thanks for your input! She's just being so passive aggressive about me and always wants to be the center of attention and can't stand when she isn't (keep in mind she's 30). So I know that I want that negativity. I just want people happy for me who will support me and do what I need and I don't know that she can deliver that. I'm afraid she'll add stress that I don't need. I know I'll be so happy because I'm marrying the love of my life, but I don't want anything to interfere. Idk what to do..

Maybe just ask her if she would be offended if you took her off and tell her why.  Either she’ll be a jerk about it and say “Fine, I won’t be in it!” and then you at least discussed it, or she’ll promise not to be an attention hog.  Like make it so it’s her decision.  But the other thing: do you think 20 years from now you’ll regret not having her in the wedding party photos?  If you would, then just let it slide.  Maybe tell the other people in the wedding party you’re worried about it and if she starts doing something they’ll tell her to knock it off.